Transformation… (A pink journey), 10th April 2016, St Mary’s Fordingbridge, Rachel Noël

So today we have two really big picture readings, fabulous imagery, fantastic stories, huge signs of the transformation that is possible in Christ.

Are they stories that you relate to? Or do they seem too big? Too fantastical?… how do they speak to you today?

One of the ways that I think we relate to these stories is in juxtaposition to our own stories… what in them is familiar… what is in contrast…

So I thought I would share something of my story with you today, some of you may already know parts of this, to help us as we explore these readings.

I had grown up in a Christian family, I’ve been going to church since before I was born, and since I was a teenager I’ve been involved in leading Christian youth groups, summer camps, and leading services in church. The colour I associated with myself at that time was blue, and you would typically have found me wearing blue, black or white.

In my late twenties, I hit a bit of a wall… I was really unwell. I’d had to stop doing a lot of the things that seemed to make me me… I could no longer lead the youth groups, or the summer camp, I wasn’t always at work and had had to reduce to part-time hours to try and get well. I felt really useless, I couldn’t ‘do’ anything… I couldn’t see any ‘value’ in being me… in just existing… what could I do.

It was a really dark place for me, I really struggled. I went away on a silent retreat at a convent… and yes, I can be quiet!…

And on that retreat, I spent time thinking about my image of God, and my connection with my experience of God. I played with colour, with paint and paper, and realized that the picture I had of God, was of gold, a formal, bounded goldness… this wasn’t a colour I related to well, it spoke perhaps more of the awesomeness, the remoteness of God…

The nun I was seeing showed me various diverse images of God, to help me think about and reflect on my image of God.

Within the images that she showed me there was an icon of Jesus, which really struck me. (Now, I’d grown up in a Baptist Church, only becoming an accidental Anglican when it turned out that I was allergic to the floor polish in the Baptist Church)…. Icons were well beyond my area of experience.

But this image really affected me, it was as if someone had struck me in the stomach. There was something about this image – only the size of a postcard – that turned inside out my understanding. And there, in the silence of this small room in the convent, I started to encounter God radically afresh, in a new way.

Colour is significant to me (you’ve probably noticed that already…), and the thing that sat really uncomfortably with me was seeing Jesus pictured wearing a red robe, with a blue cloak. The red was a shock to me. Red wasn’t a colour that I associated with Jesus or with God at all…100_1616

I sat with it for quite a while, and let it sink in. Why was I so uncomfortable with associating Jesus with red… eventually I took it into playing with paint & paper… and I realized that for me, red was a colour that I associated with life, with vibrancy, with energy & enthusiasm, with passion and exuberance… and those weren’t words that I connected with God.

So I had to go back to the scriptures to check it out… and I talked to the nun…. And I realized that those were words of God too… yes, the awesome, hugeness of God that I associated with gold was there… but this red, energetic, passionate, wild, life-giving God was also part of God… and it was a side that I hadn’t connected with.

Well… you can see, visually, what happened to me… as I prayed, and sat with this really uncomfortably new picture of God… what did it mean to be me, living in relation to this God.

For me, it wasn’t about doing… I wasn’t able to ‘do’ very much… but it was about well ness… about being the person that God had made me to be, about connecting with this passionate, life-giving God… and for me, interpreting things very physically through colour… for me, that transformation was the start of pink for me. It has been a visual reminder for me over the last 10 years or so, of the amazing love, life and grace of God… a remembering of a deep encounter with Christ, as I let go of my images of myself and of God… of encountering something so much bigger, more life-giving than anything I could imagine.

It is that encounter – in the stillness of a small room at a convent, that changed so much for me.

This week, in Richard Rohr’s meditation email he said:

“This realization that Someone is living in us and through us is exactly how we plug into a much larger mind and heart beyond our own. Afterward, we know in a different way, although we have to keep relearning this truth over and over again (the point of daily prayer). But it demands a major dying of our own small self, our ego.”

This Lent, as many of you had noticed, I chose to give up pink for Lent…

I needed to check that pink hadn’t become the new thing I was holding on to… was it just short-hand, a memory of that encounter all those years ago… had pink become my ‘brand’…

I gave it up, to see if it was in some way blocking other understandings of God for me now… and whether it had started to become a barrier that I put up, to separate me from other people…

I’ve been profoundly disoriented this Lent… a couple of weeks in, I wasn’t sure that I was going to make it to Easter… it’s affected my way of relating with God, it’s felt like giving up my identity.

As Easter came, I was really grateful to put some pink back on; because for me, at the moment, pink is still a visual reminder to me, a physical enactment of the transformation that God offers for all of us, the calling for each one of us to draw closer to him, to experience his love, his life afresh. It is a reminder that we are each called to let go of those things that we hold close, those certainties that we have that can get in the way of us encountering God afresh, and reaching out to those around us.

What I see in our readings today is the highly personal way in which each of us encounter God. I don’t think it’s saying that everyone has to have a dramatic conversion experience. For some their experience of God will be through a life-time of faithful prayer and devotion, for others their slow shaping through the rhythms of worship, for others it may be a dramatic encounter, it may be a glimpse of God through the natural world around us, our awareness of something more than each one of us.

However it is that we encounter God, I think these stories are showing us how we are shaped and changed by our encounters with God. Our faith in God is a faith in transformation, the transforming power of God’s immense love for us. For Paul we see this in his very public transformation… from killing followers of the Way… to preaching the good news.

For the disciples, we see them listening to his voice and returning with nets so full of fish that they couldn’t haul them up the beach.

This pattern of transformation that we see in Acts, and in the stories of the disciples is not one where transformation collapses into sanctified self-absorption (New Interpreters Bible Commentary, p155), Rather, conversion prepares the believer for performance of concrete tasks in the service of God.

Transformation isn’t a purely inward, personal endeavor, this conversion, this conversation with God, this working out of faith is something that is done in community. In community here, with each other, in our conversations with those around us.

And so… as we reflect on our own encounters with the divine,

are we willing to learn from those encounters…

Can we let go of our need to be right, to be in control…

are we willing to let the Holy Spirit work in us, and let our lives be transformed… to follow that journey, wherever it may lead?

Are we open to grow in the love and mercy of God, to be freed from our separateness, and to be made in the likeness of Christ?


I will end with a prayer.

God of new beginnings, we ask you to meet us on our journeys. Interrupt our lives with the light of your living truth. Teach us to bear witness to the inclusiveness of your household. Transform us from individuals to a community. And make us ready to be changed. Amen

Puddle Ducklings Party of the Decade

Puddle Ducklings celebrated their tenth birthday in grand style with a super party in St Mary’s Church Hall. Many children and their families came and enjoyed the celebrations, including 4 of the very first Puddle Ducklings. The story was featured in the Forest Journal last week.

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14th November – Fordingbridge Autumn Fair


2015 Autumn Fair

Thank you to everyone who made this a successful day, whether you helped set up, served on the stalls, donated wonderful items to sell or came along to buy and enjoy yourself. The rain did not seem to put visitors off! An amazing £1644 has been added to our funds! Thank you.